Hitting the Bottom

Mind shouts - God! Get up and Pick up the pieces. Get up now...Why aren’t you? What is stopping you?

Heart shouts - How many times? If that is what you end up doing quite frequently, aren’t you wondering, Why? How many times can you hit the bottom and yet rise again?

It is disheartening to believe if it happens to you very often. You get tired of everything, right from sorting out the things to yet sort them out again. At one stage you simply sit down and wait for it to pass by on its own. You cannot make a fool out of yourself. You tend to believe in yourself, your actions which were not meant to hurt the other person. You do things often to make other feel that you care. But when it comes to hard times it takes seconds to play the blaming game and threaten to end it up.

How do you justify you love and care? By your actions, right? But these little kind actions of everyday doesn’t mean a thing on the battlefield and it all comes to one tiny detail. What about all those little gestures that you got in the habit of doing and the other person in the habit of taking or expecting. Is anyone keeping a balance sheet of all of it.

As somebody quoted well,
"Once I did bad and that I heard ever. Twice I did good and that I heard never....."


We know it is a temporary phase, it will pass by. May be it won’t go messy if we are conscious enough to give it some time and cool our heads before just acting on it in an irrevocable manner.

'Hardcore' Professional Tone vs Coffee Tone

Being in HR industry is what I have always cheered for. I love my work and simply fit into the profile HR is meant for. I have had few success in my kitty when talking of recruiting right talent for my respective companies. You can tell that when you see the same candidate being with the company for few years and grown up his or her profile over the period of time. Undoubtedly, my maximum friends and pals have been because of my profession. It feels wonderful when people out of the blue Thank me for the help I have extended to them, though that is what is my job is.Overall, I have been a people's person.

Karvachauth – All About: Love, Respect, Sacrifice...&...Moonrise

I could not stop myself for writing on this. This is undoubtedly my most favourite festival without any second thoughts. I am in love with the whole concept of the day and the way it is celebrated.

For sure, not many from western countries may agree to the whole idea but to us Indian women it is one divine day. It is a day when we keep fasts for our husband’s good health and long life. The day starts just before sunrise when we take a quick shower and eat what our mother-in-law has given us. In the morning, we drape ourselves beautifully with ornaments. We can have a cup of tea or juice by afternoon after doing our unique prayers. Post Moonrise our partners make us drink water followed up by yummy food treat. The feeling is something that can’t be expressed just felt, felt by those women who are in love with their men and wish them to be alive forever.

Mr & Ms Right....Where to find???

It will not be wrong to say that irrespective of the marriage being a love or arranged one, it stands gamble for each one of us. More than the desire of staying married is the Habit of being married that plays a bigger role in staying or getting out of that comfort zone. There are many things we don’t realise having stayed together under the same roof but they leave the mark in little small things. Even if counts to having someone next to you for the sake of presence. What I meant is even though you are unable to stay together, the concept of getting separated doesn’t come to us very naturally. We are okay to let things just the way they are, bad, worse, not acceptable, until the day one of us get that huge Moron inside us who simply throws everything aside for xyz reasons and move on. The state of being indecisive in marriage is the most dangerous and unfair to both the partners. One of the two, I am sure is somewhat do not wish to be out, as such, for being dependent or still in love. The other is merely a victim. What decides it will not work ahead? How one decides? We are unknown to our future so such decisions are just taken on few assumptions which again, may or may not, work out as we expected them to be.

Vibrant Aura of Festival of Lights

It is already happening and I can see some shouts for the biggest festivals for us Indians here. To my surprise, many others also know it by the name – Festivals of lights just like they know the Festival of colours - Holi. One Diwali Fair has already happened here in Mel and 2 more will be organised by 13 Nov with some fireworks and cultural programs.




I have started missing Delhi already..Though we are having few Diwali celebrations here but the vibes that India has for this season is something that can't be described and felt anywhere else in the world. Just like Christmas is what we celebrate in Aus, US and UK. It is in the air....I love to celebrate each festival irrespective of where it belongs to. So after Diwali it will be all about Christmas.